Did she tell you or someone else told you? Did you two have sex before she slept with someone else?
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In early dating, people often go out with a few people around the same time — sometimes this will progress to physical intimacy. I think you should give her a pass on this one. It was just casual dating at the time. When I met my BF of almost 4 years now, he was dating someone else for about 2 weeks. He was up front about it and told me I could do the same. So we casually dated but realized within about 3 weeks we were awesome together so we both stopped dating others and became exclusive.
You seemed to never have a conversation like this so I would not dwell on it. HOWEVER, I would have a conversation with her and let her know it bothers you but now that you are exclusive and in an established relationship you will not tolerate infidelity. Let her know where you stand and make sure she agrees with you. Once this is established if you both love each other you should be fine. This was just her casually dating until she found the man she wanted to be exclusive with. She obviously chose you!
Be happy about that and move forward. That is American style dating.
Topic: She slept with someone else while we were dating
Enjoy your relationship now and move on from the early dating. I think your title is inaccurate. She spent a couple weeks deciding whether or not she liked this other guy and in the end she picked you and here you are 10 months later. If your relationship was fine up to this point it should be fine again.
My girlfriend had a one night stand and I can't sleep because of it. Help?
You love her and I would treat this just like any other guy she slept with before you two start dating. Start new discussion Closed. Follow 1 I don't know what to do, as I believe that if I tell him he won't want anything to do with me and if I don't It's going to eat away at me!
He's the first person I've ever connected with in a long time and I really don't want to mess it up over one stupid drunken mistake advice? Follow 2 Follow 3 Personally I would stop dating you Follow 4 Follow 5 Follow 6 When you're serious about making connections even professional ones , keep drink out of it. Follow 7 Twinpeaks Follow 50 followers 18 badges Send a private message to Twinpeaks.
Follow 8 You were only dating, you weren't in a full on relationship. Just forget about it. Ria25 Follow 27 followers 7 badges Send a private message to Ria Follow 9 If you want a long term future with him tell him cuz every relationship needs honesty or trust and if he really loves you he may forgive and still be with you and if after explaining he leaves then he was never meant for you. But you should try. Follow 10 Original post by Twinpeaks You were only dating, you weren't in a full on relationship. Follow 11 Follow 12 Men need to man up and realise their worth.
That bloke your seeing should not just worship you cuz your a girl. He should realise his worth and get out there. I guarantee he could pull girls and when you seem him do that it will destroy you inside he was probs a nice loyal bloke willing to stick around u Tim you did this to him. This is the path to ruin however it's an enlightening path so I think he will suffer in the short term but in the future he will thank you so much for this.
Follow 13 We got back together two months later and on our one month she told me about the one night stand, I tried to accept it. It's bugged me continuously, a year and a half later, we were dating the whole time I found out by myself she had cheated on me. I confronted her and she said yes.
At the time of her cheating our relationship was bad. I can deal with that. But the fact she had a one night stand with him drive me insane I can't get it out of my head.
I love this girl I wanted to spend my life with her, her family adores me as well we get along like PBS and j I want to get over this more then anything, how can I move past this and enjoy my relationship? Is child support fair? What to do when you're in love with someone who doesn't want you? Do any of these describe your current or past situation?